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The first frost of autumn nipped at the gym\u2019s windows, but inside, the air still smelled like cinnamon\u2014lingering from the last batch of banana muffins we\u2019d baked with the kids. Lila was kneeling beside the old wooden bench, her black curly hair tied back with a frayed purple ribbon, gently brushing dust from the plaque honoring her grandma. \u201cIt feels empty without the kids,\u201d she said, her voice soft as she traced the words \u201cElena Carter\u2014Dreamer\u201d<\/i> with her finger. I set down the small pot I\u2019d been carrying and knelt beside her. \u201cI brought something to fix that,\u201d I said, lifting the lid to reveal a cluster of green vine cuttings\u2014English ivy, just like the kind that had grown around the park bench where I\u2019d first met Marisol years ago.<\/div>\n
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Lila\u2019s eyes lit up. \u201cGrandma loved ivy,\u201d she said, reaching out to touch a tendril. \u201cShe used to grow it on her porch. Said it was \u2018proof that love clings, even when things get cold.\u2019\u201d I smiled, remembering the Latin phrase I\u2019d stumbled on in that old poetry book: Cras consectetur lectus id interdum<\/i>\u2014rough connections and the spaces between them, held together by something steady. That\u2019s what the ivy was, I thought. A way to tie our story to hers, to let the bench feel like more than wood and memories.<\/div>\n
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We spent the afternoon planting the ivy around the base of the bench, digging small holes in the gym\u2019s potted soil, gently guiding the tendrils toward the wood. Lila\u2019s curls kept falling in her face as she worked, and I\u2019d brush them back, my fingers lingering in the soft ringlets. \u201cYou\u2019re gonna get dirt in your hair,\u201d I said, grinning. She laughed, wiping a smudge of soil on my cheek. \u201cYou\u2019re one to talk\u2014you have ivy leaves in your shirt.\u201d We sat back to admire our work: the tiny vines curling toward the bench\u2019s legs, a promise of green even as winter came. \u201cCras consectetur lectus id interdum,\u201d I whispered, more to myself than to her. Lila tilted her head. \u201cWhat does that mean?\u201d I took her hand, pressing it to the bench where a vine had already clung to the wood. \u201cIt means this\u2014rough edges, messy moments, but something that holds on. Like the ivy. Like us.\u201d<\/div>\n
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We checked on the ivy every day, watering it when the soil dried, adjusting the tendrils when they wandered toward the gym\u2019s blue walls. Lila started bringing her grandma\u2019s old gardening gloves\u2014purple, frayed at the cuffs\u2014and we\u2019d spend evenings after practice tending to the vines, talking about the kids (who\u2019d called to say they missed \u201cCoach Lila\u2019s curly hair and banana snacks\u201d) and the upcoming holidays. One night, we found a small ivy tendril wrapped around the bench\u2019s armrest, tight as a hug. \u201cIt\u2019s clinging,\u201d Lila said, her voice quiet with wonder. I wrapped my arm around her, pulling her close. \u201cJust like we do,\u201d I said.<\/div>\n
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By Thanksgiving, the ivy had grown halfway up the bench, its leaves glossy and green against the wood. We hosted a small dinner at the gym\u2014turkey sandwiches, cranberry sauce, and banana muffins (of course)\u2014and invited Mr. Torres and a few of the kids who lived nearby. Mia gasped when she saw the ivy. \u201cIt\u2019s like the bench has a blanket!\u201d she said, running her hand over the vines. Lila knelt down, helping Mia trace a tendril. \u201cMy grandma used to say ivy is a friend,\u201d she said. \u201cIt stays with you, even when it\u2019s cold.\u201d Mia nodded, then picked a small leaf and tucked it into Lila\u2019s curly hair. \u201cFor your grandma,\u201d she said. Lila\u2019s eyes filled with tears, and I squeezed her hand.<\/div>\n
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That night, after everyone left, we sat on the bench, the ivy wrapping around our ankles like a gentle hold. The gym\u2019s lights were dim, and the blue walls glowed softly. Lila pulled the ivy leaf from her hair, pressing it between the pages of her grandma\u2019s photo album. \u201cShe\u2019d love this,\u201d she said, leaning her head on my shoulder. I kissed the top of her head, breathing in the scent of her hair\u2014still a little like cinnamon, a little like soil. \u201cShe is here,\u201d I said. \u201cIn the ivy, in the bench, in you.\u201d We sat there for a long time, watching the ivy sway in the gym\u2019s quiet, until Lila spoke again. \u201cRemember when I hated my curls?\u201d she said, laughing. \u201cNow they\u2019re full of ivy leaves and banana sauce. Messy, but mine.\u201d I brushed a curl from her face. \u201cMessy, but perfect,\u201d I said. \u201cJust like us.\u201d<\/div>\n
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Christmas came, and we draped a small string of white lights around the ivy-covered bench, the glow reflecting off the blue walls. Lila\u2019s grandma\u2019s purple gardening gloves hung from the bench\u2019s armrest, and my sketchbook\u2014filled with drawings of curls, ivy, and banana muffins\u2014sat on the shelf beside the white lilac jar. We exchanged small gifts: I gave Lila a necklace with a tiny ivy leaf pendant, and she gave me a new sketch pencil\u2014purple, of course\u2014with a note that said, \u201cFor drawing our story, one vine at a time.\u201d<\/i><\/div>\n
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On New Year\u2019s Eve, we stood by the bench, the ivy now covering most of the wood, and counted down to midnight. When the clock struck twelve, Lila kissed me, her curls brushing my face, the ivy leaves rustling in the breeze. \u201cHere\u2019s to more ivy,\u201d she said, smiling. \u201cMore curls. More banana muffins.\u201d I kissed her again, pressing my hand to the bench where the ivy clung tight. \u201cHere\u2019s to us,\u201d I said. \u201cTo Cras consectetur lectus id interdum<\/i>\u2014to holding on, no matter what.\u201d<\/div>\n
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Love isn\u2019t about perfect vines or perfect hair. It\u2019s about ivy that clings to a old bench, about curls full of soil and leaves, about banana muffins and late nights tending to something that matters. It\u2019s about Lila\u2014her curly hair, her kind heart, her love for her grandma and the kids and me. It\u2019s about the rough edges and the spaces between, held together by something steady.<\/div>\n
And as the ivy grows, as the curls bounce, as we keep tending to our little corner of the gym, I know one thing for sure: we\u2019ll keep clinging. To each other, to the memories, to the love that wraps around us like ivy\u2014warm, steady, and forever.<\/div>\n
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